A big day is coming

I just got off the phone with the member of the High Council that is over the stake baptisms and Sydney is all set for next weekend.    I guess it's real.  This has been a long time coming.  It felt like she would never get here and now that's she's here if feels like no time has passed.   It's like that feeling when you bless your first born.  It's that kind of anticipation.  I am excited and nervous.  when did she get his old.  I am glad she has the desire to be baptized and do what's right.  I hope and pray she continues to feel this way as her life progresses.  Today I am blessed with thankfulness.

Peaceful Decision

Nick and I came to a head today on the money situation.  We decided to put it in the Lord's hands.  We can't do it alone anymore.  It's not possible.  We will do everything in our power to make it work and put the rest to the Lord.  And if we lose our house then we have a very hard lesson to learn.  But I have confidence that we'll figure it out.  Just do our best.  Today I am blessed with peace of mind.  Earlier today I almost had a panic attack about money and after talking with Nick I feel totally at ease.  I feel calm and ok about everything.  And that is a very tender mercy indeed.

Total Turnaround

If yesterday was a spiritual high,  today was the polar opposite.  My kids made me crazy, Mr. G got under my skin.   Boy it's crazy how Satan works.   I was so finished today.  I'm humbled by the blessings I received today to just let me get through the day.    I'm hoping tomorrow is better.

Light Bulb Moment

Today in sunday school I was reminded that the Lord will never give me more than I can handle.  And as I look at my life and as I am prompted by the Lord to better myself, it is my job to do the work to improve.  The Lord will only remind me and show me the way so many times.  I have to make the choice to make the change.  

 

Nick can only tell me so many time how I keep disappointing him with my careless regard for money.  He is getting to the end of  his rope.  And he and the Lord are pushing me to make the right money choices.  It is my job to partake of the blessings our family will recieve when I decide to CTR.  

I know I will be severely challenged.  I have been for many years.  I NEED to do this, my marriage is in danger of failing if I can't get it together.  I don't want to lose my family.  They are my everything.  Brother Knecht hit me with a light bulb moment today as we discussed  D&C 3:1-19.  We discussed how Joseph Smith lost the 116 pages of the Book of Mormon.  He was rebuked by the Lord and that was it.  He never did anything like it again.  I NEED to follow that example.  I have been rebuked, many times, and I need to make the choice to change it.  It is MY choice.  I need to make it and depend on the Lord to help me continue to choose correctly.  And to lean on my husband to help me stay the course.  Use all the faculties I have at my disposal.  

In Relief Society I heard a great quote and I'm going to put it up on my fridge, to help me remember.  

"WELL MANAGED FAMILIES DON'T PAY INTEREST, THEY EARN IT."

I loved that.

I was tested today

Sydney is my trial,  I just know it.  Today something as simple as asking her to clean her room, turned into a multi hour fight.  She pushed every  button she could,  told me she hated me, wished for a new family, etc.  You get the picture.  Yet I held my ground, didn't give in and eventually she did it my way.  Did what I asked her to do.  I am reminded that today the Lord graced me with patience.  I didn't explode, which is unlike me.  I know Sydney will continue to push those buttons, and she and I will grow as a result.  My job as her mother is to guide these situations so that we both get the best out of them.  I love my Miss Diva, even when she goes the way of her mother as a child.  So Mom, I get it, I'm sorry.  And I acknowledge, the Tender Mercies given to me today so that I could deal with this and not lose it.

my gno with miss diva

Today I was reminded how much I love and enjoy miss diva.  I recieved the chance to take her to Disneyland as a reward for an A on a test at school.  We laughed, held hands, ate yummy, sugary, bad for you treats.  Went on fun rides.  Just enjoyed the night.  The Lord blessed me today by allowing me to recall all the great things about my daughter.  As of late she and I have had a rift, we don't see eye to eye.  So tonight it was nice to forget all about the icky stuff and just enjoy the night.  

I am so impressed with the daughter Miss Diva is becoming.  She is well liked, kind, kind hearted, passionate.  It was nice to be reminded.  I would love to make these GNO nights more of a regular thing.

Welcome

So a couple weeks ago, right before the new year, Brother Knecht in Sunday School spoke on the Lord's tender mercies.  He spoke of how if we had the chance we should write down all the blessings the Lord bestows on us, not just for us, but as a teaching tool for our children.  So that one day when we are trying to explain blessings we can look back and say "here, is how the Lord blessed me."  And they realize blessings aren't just huge answered prayers or things that are so obvious.  They are the everyday comings and goings that cement our faith in Jesus Christ and His Gospel.  

I was inspired to start another blog dedicated just to the blessings in my life.  My intentions are for me and my family.  But if others get inspired, then added bonus' for me.    So as I start this new phase in my life I hope I see the abundance of the Lord's tender mercies in my life.  And I gain a stronger testimony of Jesus Christ and a renewed energy to live His Gospel.